Are you living the life you want to live? If not, why not?
In mulling this over lately, I’ve realized inertia and lack of awareness are two of the biggest roadblocks to a meaningful, productive life.
It is easy to sit on the couch and lament our current state of affairs or to trudge down well-worn paths year after year, like a plow horse wearing blinders. To achieve any kind of success, we need to first get off the couch and start paying attention.
Well-known motivational speaker Anthony Robbins said, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.”
If you’re like me, you’ve heard this saying so many times it doesn’t register. So take a
minute to read it again. Now, read it once more. Let the truth of it poke into your bones far enough to make you uncomfortable, to make you squirm.
Be honest. What wall are you banging your head against? What issue are you hoping will resolve itself–with no input from you? What dream still seems impossibly far away?
Once you’ve answered those questions, courage has to step up and do battle. Knowledge without action is pretty much useless. That means change, and change is scary.
Given today’s economy, many of us have experienced the inertia/blindness affect when it comes to finances. Somehow, while we weren’t paying attention, the months got longer than the paycheck. So how do we reverse that? There are really only two options: We either need more money coming in–or less money going out.
Option 3, which is ignoring the problem and hoping it will fix itself, has for us so far yielded nothing but frustration, tension and more gray hair than we need.
It’s time for action.
In your world, what needs to change? What’s keeping you from reaching your dreams? Be specific. Write it down.
How are you going to change it, exactly? Break it into small, measurable steps.
What’s the deadline? Set a completion date for each phase of the process and then find an accountability partner to make sure you don’t revert back to inertia. Complaining and lamenting is always easier than doing. But it doesn’t move us forward.
My good friend and critique partner is holding my feet to the creative fire. Knowing I have to report my progress forces me to quit whining and start writing.
How about you? What changes are you making? How are you plowing through inertia?