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Life's Unexpected Turns

I have a love-hate relationship with roller coasters. I love the spins and swoops and even the upside down loops that comprise the whole crazy scream-fest. But I hate, hate, hate that s-l-o-w climb to the top, because I know what that means, and my heart starts pounding in anticipation. Closing my eyes doesn’t help, either, because I know what’s coming. The moment we hit the crest of the hill, I’ll find myself looking straight down at the ground as my stomach does a terrifying freefall, generally arriving 30 seconds before the rest of me does.

Life's Unexpected Turns

Life’s Unexpected Turns

Despite all that, I love roller coasters. I enjoy the controlled terror. As long as everything works as it’s supposed to, it’s a pretty safe risk.

Life, though, is a lot more disorganized and unpredictable. It doesn’t come with tracks and harnesses that keep everything nice and tidy and safe. Just when you think it’s going to zig, it takes a sharp zag and you’re left gaping at the scene in front of you, thinking, “Wow. Didn’t expect that.”

How do we react then? How do we handle life’s unexpected turns?

Sometimes, all we can do is grip the safety bar and hang on tight, trusting God has his hand on the controls.

At other times, it means we’ve been plunked down at a fork in the road and we have to make a choice: left turn or right? Stay the course or make a change?

And sometimes, the new situation we’ve stumbled across is a pile of yuck and the only control we have is over our attitude. Are we going to scream and stomp? Or dive in and make it better? Endure with grace? Or complain and moan?

Some days, we may do all of the above within a 30-minute interval.

So here’s where irony shows up. This morning, I got up and let Doggie out and then back in while I finished up this blog post. Just as I hit the “publish” button, my website hit a snag and an awful stench invaded my office. As the error signal flashed on my screen, I looked up and realized Doggie had dumped a load right outside my office door.

Talk about an opportunity to practice what I preach! I cleaned up, notified the powers that be, and went for a bike ride. And laughed.

It was a good reminder that when life takes a sharp, unexpected turn, take a minute to stop and think, to decide next steps before you run screaming for the exit. The time it takes to breathe deeply and cut through the panic is never wasted. It gives us time to decide how to act, rather than simply reacting.

And this morning notwithstanding, sometimes, those unexpected swoops can lead to  amazing surprises!

What about you? How do you react when life suddenly zigs when you were planning to zag? I’d love to hear about it in the comments.

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  1. Because I’m about to establish my web site, I was more concerned about the “glitch” in yours than your other unexpected “zig”. The reminder to take a deep breath was a good one.

    • Connie Mann says:

      Hi Joanne, I hear you. But the tech guys quickly solved the glitch and the auto-save feature kept the post, so I didn’t have to start over. The irony of the timing of it all will have me chuckling all day!

  2. Debra Jess says:

    Finding good customer service for computer glitches is almost as good as finding gold. I’ve had my share of glitches since I started my web site. But poor doggie! I’m sure he didn’t mean to make the mess.

    • Connie Mann says:

      Hi Deb, my web host is wonderful and always instantly on top of any issues, which I so appreciate. And doggie is very old and unexpected messes are becoming, well, less unexpected. Sigh.

      Life seems to offer a never-ending opportunity to learn to swoop with the sudden turns!

  3. Chrys Fey says:

    Hi, Connie! This was a great post! Very insightful, and it had me thinking about some of the snags I’ve had to deal with lately in my current situation. I am constantly trying to remain positive, but it can be hard. I guess we will never learn how to deal with life’s roller coaster. . . . And I couldn’t help but laugh when you said Doggie dumped a load outside your office, even though I know that’s not exactly fun to deal with.

    Best wishes!

  4. Carla Mueller says:

    Excellent post, Connie. I’ve had far too many chances lately to test my ability to zig and/or zag.

    I guess a predictable life of straight lines would be rather boring, but every now and then it sure would be nice to venture down a straight path.

    I’m reminded of one of my mom’s favorite phrases, “God will never give you more than you can handle.” We may not believe in our abilities at times, but God always does.

    • Connie Mann says:

      A great reminder, Carla! Thanks for sharing Mom’s wisdom. I’ve been longing for more of a straight line, too, but that doesn’t seem to be what’s, ahem, showing up. Guess ill keep practicing my zig-zag skills. 🙂

  5. Jan Jackson says:

    Coming from one who is very familiar with the gifts left by pets, I sympathize. LOL! And you are so right, PMA ( Positive Mental Attitude) wins the day. The one thing I’ve learned through many trials is that God is in control, and if we trust in Him, all will be well in the end.

    • Connie Mann says:

      Thanks Jan. You know! I try to remember that whatever I’m facing, God is NOT in heaven wringing His hands saying, “Oh, no. What now?” He’s got a plan. 🙂